Between the Lines: We Refuse to Be Enemies

Date: Oct 26, 2021 - Oct 26, 2021

Time: 7:30 pm

Sponsor: Milstein Center for Interreligious Dialogue | The Library

Location: Online

Category: Book Talks Library Events

An online discussion with Sabeeha Rehman and Walter Ruby

Part of Between the Lines: Author Conversations from The Library of JTS

Tuesday, October 26, at 7:30 p.m. ET

Join authors Sabeeha Rehman and Walter Ruby when they talk about their book, We Refuse to Be Enemies, a manifesto that offers experience and guidance on the rise of intolerance, bigotry, and white nationalism in the United States.

Together, Rehman, a Muslim woman, and Ruby, a Jewish man, have spent decades doing interfaith work and nurturing cooperation among communities.

Growing up in Pakistan before she immigrated to the United States, Rehman never met a Jew, and her view was colored by the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. In his youth, Ruby never met a Muslim, and his opinion was shaped by Leon Uris’s Exodus. Yet together they have formed a friendship and collaboration.

Tapping their own life stories and entering into dialogue within the book, they explain how they have found commonalities between their respective faiths and discuss shared principles and lessons, how their perceptions of the Other have evolved, and the pushback they faced. 

Samuel G. Freedman, award-winning author of Jew vs. Jew: The Struggle for the Soul of American Jewry, writes: “Sabeeha Rehman and Walter Ruby have written an essential book for the vital and important emergence of a Muslim-Jewish alliance in the United States…Affectionate and yet unflinching, Rehman and Ruby draw on personal experience, history, theology, and concrete examples of  effective partnership to show the hard work that our two communities must continue to do.”

This event is co-sponsored by The JTS Library and the Milstein Center for Interreligious Dialogue. Dr. David Kraemer, Joseph J. and Dora Abbell Librarian and professor of Talmud and Rabbinics, JTS, will serve as moderator.

About Sabeeha Rehman

Sabeeha Rehman is an author, blogger, and speaker on the American Muslim experience. Her memoir Threading My Prayer Rug: One Woman’s Journey from Pakistani Muslim to American Muslim, was shortlisted for the 2018 William Saroyan International Prize for Writing, named one of Booklist’s Top Ten Religious and Spirituality Books of 2016 and Top Ten Diverse Nonfiction Books of 2017, awarded honorable mention in the 2017 San Francisco Book Festival Awards, Spiritual Category, and chosen as a 2019 United Methodist Women’s Reading Program Selection. Excerpts from her memoir were featured in the Wall Street Journal,, and Tiferet. Since the publication of her memoir, she has given more than 250 talks in nearly a hundred cities, at houses of worship, academic institutions, libraries, and community organizations, including the Chautauqua Institution, where her lectures have been sold out. Sabeeha has given talks on the art of memoir writing at academic institutions including Hunter College, New York. She is an op-ed contributor to the Houses of Worship column of the Wall Street Journal and New York Daily News. She lives with her husband in New York City.

About Walter Ruby

Walter Ruby is a veteran activist in Muslim-Jewish relations. Since 2008, when he became Muslim-Jewish program director at the Foundation for Ethnic Understanding, he has organized hundreds of twinning events, bringing together tens of thousands of Jews and Muslims in more than thirty countries on five continents, including members of mosques and synagogues and Muslim and Jewish organizations. Ruby has worked as a journalist for more than forty years, mainly for American Jewish and Israeli publications, including the Jerusalem Post, London Jewish Chronicle, Long Island Jewish World, Forward, Maariv, and New York Jewish Week. In addition, he has published articles and op-ed pieces in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, New York Daily News, Los Angeles Times, Christian Science Monitor, Dallas Morning News, and many other venues. He serves as executive director of Jews, Muslims and Allies Acting Together (JAMAAT), a Washington area grassroots interfaith group, and lives in Washington, DC.